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Change Patterns That Keep You Stuck And Build Stronger Relationships

Trauma-informed counseling for men or couples ready to break cycles of disconnection while rebuilding intimacy with confidence and purpose.

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You are not Alone if...

  • You feel disconnected from your partner and have for a long time

  • You struggle with anger, shutdown, or emotional numbness

  • You keep repeating patterns in relationships you are tired of repeating

  • You carry shame, guilt, or a sense that something is “off” inside

  • You want deeper connection—but don’t know how to get there

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What Changes?

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Communicate without shutting down or exploding

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Feel grounded instead of reactive

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Rebuild trust and connection

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Understand your patterns

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Break destructive cycles

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Feel confident and in allignment with purpose

How It Works

At Finding Peace, we focus on creating conditions for lasting change.

Recognize

Increase awareness to the patterns, wounds, and beliefs shaping your life.

Understand

Gain Insight into the why behind behaviors, reactions, and struggles.

Practice

Build practical tools and new skills for lasting, real-life change.

Connect

Experience deeper connection with yourself and others.

Transform

Create a life that feels meaningful, free, and aligned with who you are.

Ways to Work Together

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Individually

Personalized support for

trauma, relationships, shame, and personal growth

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As a couple

Rebuild trust, strengthen connection, and create healthier patterns.

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Programs & Retreats

Deep transformation through immersive & structured experiences.

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About Troy L Love and Finding peace

Like many of you, I've faced seasons of struggle, shame, disconnection, numbing behaviors, and relationships that felt impossible to fix. Through my own journey and years of study, I discovered that lasting change happens in relationships, not in isolation.

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Today, I guide men, couples, and professionals to create conditions for healing, growth, and deeper connection so they can live with greater joy and purpose.

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What Clients Say

Going through this program, using Troy's methods, without a doubt saved our marriage.

David R.

 I learned that I am not alone in the world of harsh self-judgement, and that I can learn from shared experiences of other men with similar and even different struggles. 

Wyman R.

I learned how to empathically listen to my partner and effectively communicate my own feelings in a healthy way. 
This program literally saved my marriage.

Ammon S.

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Start Finding Peace Today

Five days of practical tools and guided reflection designed to help you create more peace in your relationships, your story, and yourself.

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