In Your Relationship

And Re-ignite the Passion too!

Finding Peace

in Your Relationship

The Ten Week Course That Teaches You How to Stop Conflict, Deepen Connection, and Restore the Romance

Has the “D” word come up in your arguments? Has the spark fizzled out? Do you just want to make your good relationship amazing?

 

The Next Course Begins on January 11, 2024

Do you have so much passion, romance, and connection in your relationship that you are the envy of every couple you know?

“They should make this a required course in High School. Why has no one ever taught me this stuff?”

How Many of These Apply to Your Relationship?

You never know

…when an argument will pop up so you live on pins and needles.

You fight over things

…that seem so important, but you can’t remember what it was about later on.

Your sex life

…is not where you want it to be.

There has been a violation

…of trust in the relationship.

There's a disconnect

…in your communication, but you can’t figure out what it is.

You can't seem to reach your partner

… and they feel so far away, even when they are in the same room.

You often feel like

…you are never enough in this relationship.

You wonder

…whether you would be happier if you left the relationship.

You don’t feel heard.

Proven solutions based in research, neuroscience, &relationship expertise.

Awareness

of the obstacles to lasting peace and what you can do to remove them.

Education

Learn tools and strategies based on proven research that you can use right away – even if your partner isn’t ready.

Ownership

Learn what part you are playing in the breakdown of the relationship and learn what you can do to change it. You’ll be amazed at the result.

Guidance

Get live support from a trained and experienced therapist who can answer your questions.

Results Include:

Helping

Helping each other with healing past hurts, soothing attachment wounds, and forgiveness.

Creating

Creating Safety so that even the more shy partner feels comfortable opening up and sharing feelings.

Escape

Escape the Death Spiral of drama and find lasting connection and solution-focused tools to solve issues.

Being

Being heard and understood.

More

More joy, laughter, and fun

Trust

Trust improved or restored.

Connect

Sexual connection deepens and is more passionate than ever.

Here Is What We Cover:

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Week 1

Laying the Foundation

Understanding the Key Components of Connection
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Week 2

Attachment Wounds​ & Core Beliefs

Understanding the key role attachment wounds play in conflict. Explore the associated Core Beliefs and learn strategies to reframe negative core beliefs through empathy.
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Week 3

Listen Up

Take a deeper dive into the tools and techniques to become an Empathy Black Belt
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Week 4

Avoiding the Traps​​

Learn what to watch out for that can hijack communication within nanoseconds
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Week 5

Core Emotions and The Shadows of Shame

Developing Higher Emotional Intelligence. Master the tools to develop shame resilience.
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Week 6

Revisiting Past Hurts​

Cultivating an environment of healing and relationship repair
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Week 7

The Finding Peace Worksheet​​

Practice using a powerful tool to resolve conflict and improve the relationship.
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Week 8

Keeping the Relationship Alive​

Learn strategies to enhance openness and vulnerability with your partner
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Week 9

The Birds and the Bees​

Exploring how to connect sexually with your partner
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Week 10

Share Meaning​

Cultivating mutual purpose within the relationship

What People Are Saying

“I considered before coming that divorce might be my only option. This weekend has completely turned around our relationship. We understand one another so much better! Best money I’ve spent in years!”

B.S., Arizona

“This weekend has been monumental in helping me to be able to express myself with better clarity, and understanding how my spouse communicates her feelings. I highly recommend this for any couples, not just if you’re having issues but to be able to just connect with each other.”

T.S., Arizona

“This workshop has given me valuable insights into my relationship with my husband, family, and friends. It has given me the knowledge, tools, and a road map to navigate through the wounds we all have to get to a happier more connected relationship at the end. This is the beginning of a new journey of connection and love in my life.”

T.S., Arizona

“This course has been a pivotal point in our relationship. We have come to realize what has been in front of us all this time but just couldn’t see it. This course gave us the tools/map to navigate through it all to get to the place we both want to be. We can now see it, address it correctly & build from it.”

B.S., Arizona

“Five Stars!!! I appreciate all that this course has provided me and my wife! A wonderful perspective and the tools to help strengthen our relationship and improve our communication!

Thank you, Troy!!”

J.B., Arizona

I am so thankful for all the information in this course. It was so helpful and healing for me. I would recommend this course for anyone who desires better communication in their relationships in life.

M. Stich, Arizona

We enjoyed the class, it was interactive, we were provided a variety of skills and tools to help build better communication and trust in our relationship. Enjoyed the weekly sessions with the instructor and other couples in similar situations by zoom video. Learned a lot about unique tools and strategies to help with poor communication, rebuilding trust, dealing with old wounds, and forgiveness. Greatly appreciative of the opportunity to take this type of class. We learned a lot about each other and ourselves. We would definitely recommend this class for other couples who are struggling with communication, and conflicts in their relationship.

Space is limited!

FAQ

Why Should I NOT Sign Up for this Course?

Do not sign up for this course if you are hoping it will change your spouse or partner.  

You may hope, you may dream, you may wish, or you may pray that your partner is going to fundamentally change. I’m a dreamer too.  But this course is not designed to change your spouse.  It is designed to help you change. The tools and strategies in this course will not help you “fix” your spouse.

If your partner engages in behaviors that you truly cannot tolerate, this course will not change those behaviors.  It might be wiser to consult a lawyer than to go any further in this course.

HOWEVER, if you are willing to learn the tools and strategies in this class and you begin to change the way you show up in this relationship, as you learn how to be vulnerable, open, and loving, it can influence your partner to do the same. 

You have a choice. You can step into your best, most loving, light-filled self and learn how to be fully present.  You can learn how to follow through with boundaries.  You can learn how to listen in a different way.  Or you can wish your partner will do all of that.  

I’m telling you, you will get far more out of this class if you choose to work on yourself.

What is the main focus of the "Finding Peace in Relationships Class?

The main focus of the class is to help you develop skills and strategies to foster healthier and more fulfilling relationships, both with yourself and with others. It aims to provide insights into communication, conflict resolution, emotional intelligence, and self-awareness, which can contribute to overall peace and harmony in your relationships. By enrolling in the class, you can expect to gain a deeper understanding of your own needs and emotions, enhance your communication skills, develop empathy and compassion, and learn effective conflict resolution strategies. Ultimately, this can lead to improved relationships, increased self-awareness, and a greater sense of peace and fulfillment in your interactions with others.

Who will be teaching the class, and what are their qualifications?

The class will be taught byTroy L Love, the Founder of Finding Peace Consulting.  Other experienced professionals or experts in the field of psychology, counseling, or relationship coaching may also provide facilitation during the training. They will have a strong background in helping individuals navigate relationship challenges and promote personal growth and emotional well-being. 

What is the format for the training like? How much time will it take each week?
The Finding Peace in Your Relationship Training is a fusion of pre-recorded training videos and weekly live 2 hour interactive training sessions.

Each week you will gain access to the next training video along with associated exercises. You are highly encouraged to complete the exercises BEFORE the live sessions because it will help you get more out of our time together. We recommend you dedicate at least 30 – 45 minutes daily to work on each week’s assignments.

The two-hour Live Training Sessions will be held weekly at the same designated time each week (see the heading on this page for the day and time)

Research shows that unhappy relationships can significantly increase the risk of heart disease, stroke, and chronic pain. So making this a priority could quite literally change your life. Please make the necessary arrangements to attend.

As much as we would like to, the live sessions will not be recorded. When you attend one, you will understand why. Participants who do not attend the live sessions are not entitled to a reduction in the cost of the program and would not be eligible for a refund.

What if my partner doesn't want to attend? Can I still come?

There are many partners who are reluctant to attend events like this for a variety of reasons. And after working with couples for over a decade, I have the seen magic happen in relationships even if only one person in the relationship shows up to learn and implement the tools that will be taught.

The principle is this: When even one person does something to change the environment, the other person has to adjust as well. Whether you change the environment in negative ways or positive ways, the impact will be felt by your partner. We will discuss how to take ownership of your roles and behaviors in the relationship and how doing so can dramatically improve your desired results.

Although your relationship may change faster or more dramatically with both of you engaged, you can still experience a lot of improvement by doing the work yourself. And truthfully, that is really all that any of us can do. We can wait around for our partner to change, but there are more effective ways of spending your time. 

If you enroll by yourself and your partner is not interested in joining,  use the coupon code: Hansolo for 50% off. 

 

I think my relationship is dead. We are already separated. What good would it do to attend?
Well, I don’t know your exact situation, but I am aware of multiple couples whose marriages ended in divorce and yet they came back together and repaired the breach. I won’t lie and tell you that it was easy, but these couples reported that it was definitely worth it.

But even if it doesn’t save your current relationship, the tools and education this program offers can also shine a light on what didn’t work so well in the past so that your chances of success in future relationships are higher.

I don’t know if you have seen the statistics, but every time a person remarries the likelihood of divorce skyrockets higher and higher. Would it be worth it to you to learn ways to not make the same mistakes a second or third time around?

Is the class suitable for all types of relationships, like romantic, family, and friendships?

Although the class specifically addresses romantic relationships, 90% of the material covered is also beneficial for all types of relationships. Whether you are seeking to improve your romantic relationship, family dynamics, or friendships, the principles and techniques taught in the class can be applied to various situations.

I'm concerned about the confidentiality of the class. Will my personal experiences be shared with others?

Confidentiality is a top priority in such classes. It is essential for creating a safe and supportive environment for participants to share their experiences and concerns openly. The class instructors will likely emphasize the importance of respecting each other’s privacy and maintaining confidentiality among all participants.

I'm not sure if this class is right for me. Is there any way to get more information or try a sample session?

Absolutely! Before committing to the full course, you can preview some of the course information by clicking the link to register. 

What if I have scheduling conflicts or can't attend all the classes?

Life can be busy, and it’s understandable that you might have scheduling conflicts. Because of the format of the class, you will not miss out on the content.  All of the content is recorded except the live sessions.  The live sessions review the homework and provide extra support. 

What if I feel uncomfortable discussing personal matters in a group setting?

Many people feel this way initially, and it’s completely normal. However, group settings can provide valuable opportunities for learning and growth as you see how others navigate similar challenges. If you find it challenging, remember that the class instructors are trained to create a safe and non-judgmental space, and your comfort and well-being are their top priorities.