In Your Relationship

And Re-ignite the Passion too!

Finding Peace

in Your Relationship

The Twelve Week Course That Teaches You How to Stop Conflict, Deepen Connection, and Restore the Romance

Has the “D” word come up in your arguments? Has the spark fizzled out? Do you just want to make your good relationship amazing?


The Twelve Week Course That Teaches You How to Stop Conflict, Deepen Connection, and Restore the Romance

Has the “D” word come up in your arguments? Has the spark fizzled out? Do you just want to make your good relationship amazing?

This 12-week online relationship improvement program provides easy-to-follow solutions based on 30-years of research to help you find peace, joy, passion, and love again.

The Next Course Begins on January 6, 2022

Every Thursday from 3:00 pm – 5:00 pm PST

Do you have so much passion, romance, and connection in your relationship that you are the envy of every couple you know?

“They should make this a required course in High School. Why has no one ever taught me this stuff?”

How Many of These Apply to Your Relationship?

You never know

…when an argument will pop up so you live on pins and needles.

You fight over things

…that seem so important, but you can’t remember what it was about later on.

Your sex life

…is not where you want it to be.

There has been a violation

…of trust in the relationship.

There's a disconnect

…in your communication, but you can’t figure out what it is.

You can't seem to reach your partner

… and they feel so far away, even when they are in the same room.

You often feel like

…you are never enough in this relationship.

You wonder

…whether you would be happier if you left the relationship.

You don’t feel heard.

Proven solutions based in research, neuroscience, &relationship expertise.


of the obstacles to lasting peace and what you can do to remove them.


Learn tools and strategies based on proven research that you can use right away – even if your partner isn’t ready.


Learn what part you are playing in the breakdown of the relationship and learn what you can do to change it. You’ll be amazed at the result.


Get live support from a trained and experienced therapist who can answer your questions.

Results Include:


Helping each other with healing past hurts, soothing attachment wounds, and forgiveness.


Creating Safety so that even the more shy partner feels comfortable opening up and sharing feelings.


Escape the Death Spiral of drama and find lasting connection and solution-focused tools to solve issues.


Being heard and understood.


More joy, laughter, and fun


Trust improved or restored.


Sexual connection deepens and is more passionate than ever.

Twelve Weeks to Finding Peace


Week 1

Laying the Foundation

Understanding the Key Components of Connection

Week 2

Attachment Wounds​

Understanding the key role attachment wounds play in conflict.

Week 3

Exploring Core Beliefs​

Developing strategies to challenge negative core beliefs through empathy

Week 4

Avoiding the Traps​​

Learn what to watch out for that can hijack communication within nanoseconds

Week 5

Core Emotions​

Developing Higher Emotional Intelligence

Week 6

The Shadows of Shame​

Develop tools to increase shame resilience and deepen connection

Week 7

Getting to Know Us​

Explore Assessment Tools to better understand each other

Week 8

Revisiting Past Hurts​

Cultivating an environment of healing and relationship repair

Week 9

The Finding Peace Worksheet​​

Practice using a powerful tool to resolve conflict and improve the relationship.

Week 10

Keeping the Relationship Alive​

Learn strategies to enhance openness and vulnerability with your partner

Week 11

The Birds and the Bees​

Exploring how to connect sexually with your partner

Week 12

Share Meaning​

Cultivating mutual purpose within the relationship

What People Are Saying

“I considered before coming that divorce might be my only option. This weekend has completely turned around our relationship. We understand one another so much better! Best money I’ve spent in years!”

B.S., Arizona

“This weekend has been monumental in helping me to be able to express myself with better clarity, and understanding how my spouse communicates her feelings. I highly recommend this for any couples, not just if you’re having issues but to be able to just connect with each other.”

T.S., Arizona

“This workshop has given me valuable insights into my relationship with my husband, family, and friends. It has given me the knowledge, tools, and a road map to navigate through the wounds we all have to get to a happier more connected relationship at the end. This is the beginning of a new journey of connection and love in my life.”

T.S., Arizona

“This course has been a pivotal point in our relationship. We have come to realize what has been in front of us all this time but just couldn’t see it. This course gave us the tools/map to navigate through it all to get to the place we both want to be. We can now see it, address it correctly & build from it.”

B.S., Arizona

“Five Stars!!! I appreciate all that this course has provided me and my wife! A wonderful perspective and the tools to help strengthen our relationship and improve our communication!

Thank you, Troy!!”

J.B., Arizona

I am so thankful for all the information in this course. It was so helpful and healing for me. I would recommend this course for anyone who desires better communication in their relationships in life.

M. Stich, Arizona

We enjoyed the class, it was interactive, we were provided a variety of skills and tools to help build better communication and trust in our relationship. Enjoyed the weekly sessions with the instructor and other couples in similar situations by zoom video. Learned a lot about unique tools and strategies to help with poor communication, rebuilding trust, dealing with old wounds, and forgiveness. Greatly appreciative of the opportunity to take this type of class. We learned a lot about each other and ourselves. We would definitely recommend this class for other couples who are struggling with communication, and conflicts in their relationship.

Space is limited!


What is the format for the training like? How much time will it take each week?
The Finding Peace in Your Relationship Training is a fusion of pre-recorded training videos and weekly live 2 hour interactive training sessions.

Each week you will gain access to the next training video along with associated exercises. You are highly encouraged to complete the exercises BEFORE the live sessions because it will help you get more out of our time together. We recommend you dedicate at least 30 – 45 minutes daily to work on each week’s assignments.

The two-hour Live Training Sessions will be held weekly at the same designated time each week (see the heading on this page for the day and time)

Research shows that unhappy relationships can significantly increase the risk of heart disease, stroke, and chronic pain. So making this a priority could quite literally change your life. Please make the necessary arrangements to attend.

As much as we would like to, the live sessions will not be recorded. When you attend one, you will understand why. Participants who do not attend the live sessions are not entitled to a reduction in the cost of the program and would not be eligible for a refund.

What if my partner doesn't want to attend? Can I still come?
There are many partners who are reluctant to attend events like this for a variety of reasons. And after working with couples for over a decade, I have the seen magic happen in relationships even if only one person in the relationship shows up to learn and implement the tools that will be taught.

The principle is this: When even one person does something to change the environment, the other person has to adjust as well. Whether you change the environment in negative ways or positive ways, the impact will be felt by your partner. We will discuss how to take ownership of your roles and behaviors in the relationship and how doing so can dramatically improve your desired results.

Although your relationship may change faster or more dramatically with both of you engaged, you can still experience a lot of improvement by doing the work yourself. And truthfully, that is really all that any of us can do. We can wait around for our partner to change, but there are more effective ways of spending your time.

I think my relationship is dead. We are already separated. What good would it do to attend?
Well, I don’t know your exact situation, but I am aware of multiple couples whose marriages ended in divorce and yet they came back together and repaired the breach. I won’t lie and tell you that it was easy, but these couples reported that it was definitely worth it.

But even if it doesn’t save your current relationship, the tools and education this program offers can also shine a light on what didn’t work so well in the past so that your chances of success in future relationships are higher.

I don’t know if you have seen the statistics, but every time a person remarries the likelihood of divorce skyrockets higher and higher. Would it be worth it to you to learn ways to not make the same mistakes a second or third time around?